Relationships and clothes

       So am sitted down on one lazy afternoon. Am waiting for Bae to visit, and am thinking. Of how many other have come before her(and am not calling me a player). And this crazy Idea of how much relationships can be compared to clothes. Confused, right?
        Let me shine the light on you. So, think of the last time you went shopping. And now that we've created that picture in your memory, let's answer this question. Was it because you ran out of clothes? Was it because all your clothes  were completely worn out? Probably the answer will be no.
       This is exactly how relationships are. You don't always move from one relationship to another because your love is so torn apart. You at times feel you deserve better.
       Then, let's go on with our fantasy. After you are done shopping there will be that clothe that becomes your favourite. You just want to wear it any and every day. That is when you first fall for that person and you can't think of how you would do without your 'favourite clothing'
         But unfortunately, this love doesn't always last. Wait until you walk by the streets and see a better and more "trendy" clothe. And you are like 'I really need to get myself that clad'. Then slowly you start to forget about that previous one that you had to go through hell to get. You only wear it once a week. And that is mostly when you've got no choice.
       And after you've gotten the new one its more probable it will be replaced the next time you go shopping.
       Enough of the negative side. Now let's talk of how you maintain and take care of that special clothing. How much you give. More attention when washing so no stain is left unclean. When Ironing so you don't burn it. Coz you are not sure once you spoil it you will get another like it. That is the same care we should accord to that special someone. He or she should be your special clothing. You should want to wear them each and every day. Just like that favourite clothe they should make you feel special.
       
Dedicated to L.W you are my favorite clothing, I don't need to go shopping coz for you there is no replacement. I want to wear you every day of my life

I hope you find another like me

       I rem when we first fell in love. We stuck together like hand and glove.  Back then when you laughed through all my conversations . Back then I could  still  see the smile on your face reflect the happiness in your heart.
       Back then you never knew my name, to me I was just 'love'.  You told me you couldn't see your life with anyone else but me. Without me you wouldn't know how you would survive. I was the very air you used to breath and your heart bet to my name.  You made it look like paradise on earth. You filled my heart with fantasies.  You gave me false hopes.
     You were the girl of my wildest dreams.  You were my perfect example of how lovers are ment to be.  Yes, I loved you. To you I was committed.
     But, look how everything turned out. I wonder what I did wrong. I wonder what I would have done different. I thought I treated you right. I remember you used to say "Bby you make me feel like a princess" What changed?
         Now all I have are memories. And fantasies of what could have been.  You shattered me to pieces when you finally left. Like you before, I  didn't think I would make it. But thank God I realized you were not worth it.  All the tears and sorrow. All the worries and effort.
      Now that I finally realized how good I treated you.  I feel sorry.  And all I can say is "I hope you find another like me"  I hope he kisses you like I did, makes love to you like I did. I hope he understands you like I. I hope he realizes how much you love chocolates and how much you hate lies.  I hope he understands you better than I did Coz darln,  YOU WILL REMEMBER ME.

Its not all that mattters

IT’S NOT ALL WHAT MATTERS
“Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, what I consider beautiful is not what you consider beautiful.” Most people would argue. Then if that is the case I believe we shouldn’t generally use the word beautiful. I believe those who came up with word should go back to the drawing board and come up wish loads of other names to describe each kind of beauty if beauty is so diverse.
But that is besides my point, its only fair am also allowed to clear the myth that beauty is only defined by what is viewed on the outside. It’s for this reason I agree with the definition that beauty is the quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind. So to me beauty is not the color of your skin, it’s not how irresistible your eyes are, or how much cleavage you show, it’s not how big your ass-ets are. No. real beauty is rarely seen or appreciated ordinarily. It’s found mostly on the inside.
I admit that a man’s weakness is a beautiful woman, on the outside, he is fascinated by the size of her behind or how big her chest is. If you know what I mean. We are as guilty as charged. I know these things matter. They are important but not necessary. I believe we men should not be intimidated by the appearance of a woman. I am not being a hater but, the truth be told. Just because she has the behind of Kim Kardashian or the face of Lupita Nyon’go or the boobs of Christina Hendrics. You feel inferior. The heart is what is most important.
So please, men when you want to choose that special person. Though it might be hard to convince you, don’t always focus on the outer beauty. If you are only after a one stand then go ahead and grab the biggest ass you can and the prettiest face. I won’t point a finger or blame you. True love only combines with people with good hearts and extra ordinary personalities.
And you girls, outer beauty isn’t the only thing that matters, ask Bruno mars(just the way you are),John Legend(you&I) OR EVEN Colbie Caillat(Try) . (By:joseph muriuki For; Love Issues)

My First love

Today I am writing this letter to my first love.... Honestly I dont know who that is.... After all am too young to understand love or maybe I do. But here is the thing

I know its been months or years maybe(after all I dont know who am talking to) since our love Issues came to an end, our so called love affair. I know you loved me. But I thought i loved you too. I know I made you promises. I laugh at myself just thinking about them. I even thought I would marry you.
       I curse the first day i called you baby.... Thats what we were "babies" maybe we were not aware of what we were saying and doing.
        I thought you were the most beautiful girl in the world. Now am sure if I was to see you again I wouldn't look twice.
        I am sorry I have to be this honest to you. But it kills me with shame to think I was ever that naive. They say you never foget your first love. But, you  i wont forget for all the wrong reasons.
      My love, I used to call you, I love you, I used to tell you, forever I used to think. In love I thought I was. A fool I know I was.
          But all that said, I am grateful you taught me things. You taught me how to make her smile, thanks to you I knew how to love, thanks to you am no longer so shy, thanks to you I know when she is sad.  And thanks to you I know what beauty is and thanks to you I know what love is and is not.
      Am glad that you.... Were... MY FIRST LOVE

Facebook will take her away

So, today I am talking to all He's. I believe you have a precious human being somewhere.
       So, whats your idea of a perfect girl? Is it that one who is not too much into the things of the world . Am sure you dont want a challenger for a spouse.  You dont want her to know more than you do.  You want to be the teacher.  The controller. Many would say "we ndo kusema".  Well, I dont blame you.
        Okei, so with that said.  If you are lucky to have such. Well and good.  But you have one very dangerous rival.  Facebook. All she has to do is, register, login, edit her profile and vualla she starts to update her status. This takes only afew mins. And how long did it take for her to fall for your charms....?.
      Now, one very important thing is her status. If you are lucky she will either leave it empty or fool you by saying "In a relationship" . Sorry if you thought you that important.  This is ment to make them all jealous and they will pursue her more.
       Am sure you've always called her "dear".  Wait untill loads of other guyz call her babe, sweetheart, honeycomb, darln, princes... She will be fluttered all the way from your arms to a guy she will probably never meet or see.
     You think telling her you love her is enough.  You wait and see the likes on her pics.  Wait untill she starts to be complimented in a way you have never. In afew days her friends list will hit a thoudand+.  And who knows how many of these are men, and how many fill her inbox with texts? Worse...who knows what the hell they even talk about. News flash, thats Facebook.

Those stupid crushes

      I remember my first crush as if it was just yesterday... Beautiful, angelic, beauteous, sheen, shapely, hot name them... Who am i kidding? I can barely recall her face.
    That's how crushes are. They at the time turn you upside down. They decorate your face with smiles, your mind with thoughts and your heart with expectations.
    "I am in love" you convince yourself.
    "she is the love of my life"
    "I have met my better half" you feel your head with ideas.
     But, unfortunately they are never there to stay and when you look back and remember, after everything erupts and dies.  You can't  help but laugh at your foolish self.
        Crushes come in different forms. There are those that can be justified and these you can share with others. For example, that girl at school that everybody likes, that neighbor that you never dared to talk to,....
         There are those that are forbidden.  These you will agree are more sweet and dangerous. We start with that teacher whose lessons you enjoy yet never perform in that subject,
        
         Dear teacher, i have a confession to make....
I accuse myself guilty of everything am about to say
I never sleep in class
I am always staring at you
I never understand a word you say
When you make a joke am always the first to laugh
I don't like the way you teach
But i love the way you a_dress
The class
I promise to pass your subject
Bt i need one favour from you....

Or is it your girlfriend's boyfriend or the other way round, the plumber that comes every week to fix your tap.... The list is endless...
But one thing i know we should be happy.  Crushes make life exiting, and stupid and give us things to talk to our friends about.

DON'T GIVE UP ON LOVE

    So, is there anything as love? And i don't mean the kind of love you feel for your sister or brother. Neither is it the one you claimed to feel for you ex nor is it the kind you picture on soap operas on TV.
      I admit, i also do confusse myself trying to elucidate this feeling that is supposed to be so great. But am not here to confuse you.
       "There is no such thing as love, not even in marriage"  someone once told me.
        "You know why!?  Men are devils.... They can never keep their hands to themselves" she happened to be a she.
        I believe the worst thing that ever happened that has ever spread the anti-love campaign, is the spread of the myth all men or women are bad.
      If you believe that everyone is bad how do you expect to find a good one.
Just because your previous lover was an a** doesnt make everyone else one.  Your ex shouldn't define your future husband.
       I like to view it like this, your ex left you for his or her right person.  You were not ment to be.  He or she was just another frog you had to kiss before meeting the prince.  Yours just left someone else headed for you.  All you have to do is wait and not to give up on love.