Sunday, May 17, 2015

Let us renew our vows

    I know we have dated for a while now. I am happy for each and every moment. It has been special. I know we've fought along the way. I am sorry for the times I was wrong. I forgive you for the times you were wrong.
     But, yesterday I fell in love with you all over again. I saw a whole new and different you.  You gave me that  smile  you've never shown me again. I could tell you love me from the way you looked at me. That "I_am_holding_on_to_you_" look.  I felt like I had just met you. If I was never sure that you are the one,  now am more than sure. I loved the way we made love. The way you held your eyes right in to mine.  The way you made me tremble by gently and passionately kissing my lips. The way you made me want you.  The way you kept calling my name and telling me you loved me all through. I loved the way you expressed your love, and the way you lay on my chest and let your hair run down my body after we had exhausted our bodies with passion . It give me a feeling that that was how I wanted to spend the rest of my nights. Right there next to you. I loved the way we made love,  like it was our first and last time. That is how I want it to always be.
    So am pleading to you my darling,  before this feeling subsides, before we urgue again,  before we feel our minds with all soughts of doubts, when we are still at the peak of our love story.  Let us RENEW OUR VOWS. Let's make those promises all over again.

Friday, May 15, 2015

Did you know??

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”  ―Elizabeth Gilbert

“No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater…The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.” ―Sarah Dessen

“Perhaps the reason wet are unable to love is that we yearn to be loved, that is, we demand something (love) from our partner instead of delivering ourselves up to him demand-free and asking for nothing but his company.” ―Milan Kundera

Thursday, May 7, 2015

Get love or die trying

Get rich or die trying....

These are not my words but by the words of a famous rapper 50 cent. How many of you are ready to die for love?....Count me out. Its unrealistic to think of such unless forced my circumstances. This is not what I directly mean.
        I am comparing love to richness. In so many ways is love similar to richness in the same many ways the two are different.
        I cannot call myself rich, neither can I call me poor since I lack much money. This is the case with love. If you dont have it, it doesn't necessarily mean your  heart is poor and if you do have it it doesn't make you the richest guy in the world. Similarly, the rich are the most restless and the most people who lack peace,  ask someone in a relationship and he/she if sincere enough will tell you its not always a walk in the park.
         Many are the times the rich when in company of friends will pretend to be the happiest of them all when they are more miserable than a church mouse. The same will happen to happiest of couples when they are having problems.
           I aint an Anti-love kind of guy. No.  But truth be said, finding love is not always finding happiness, so is finding money. Both of the two depends on how you take them. But I also acknowledge that reaching there is where most of us find difficult.
         Most of us are not born millionaires, we have to work our way up. And its not always a success. Most of us barely learn to walk leave alone learn to fly if you know what I mean.  We give up very early or life gives up on us.  Most will say the most difficult thing to find in this world and the most important thing is money. Others will find love both equally hard to find and equally important.
      Most people understand that money is important and hard to find but expect love to come  around easily. FYI... "Good things don't come around easily".  They give up even before they start to learn to love. Just like in business, afraid of taking risks, in relationships they are afraid of hurting.
         If we are ready to loose everything, kill and even die for money... Why not love? And am not asking you to be murderers but think about it. WHY NOT LOVE??